Hello Dr. Philo!
I have a disturbing question:
Is being polite means being hypocritical?
Where are the boundaries between politeness and hypocrisy?
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Hello, honorable correspondent. May Heaven be gracious to you and your wishes come true.
is what the Doctor Philo will try to do for you.
1 - politeness as social code
- The idea that politeness could be a form of calculation means that it would be hypocritical morally commendable to be rude to some people, and that the person's own calculation would be hypocrisy that distorts the true politeness.
We then include Alceste, the misanthrope who has flared in Molière's effect against the cowardice of courtiers with cautious politeness hide their true thoughts as hypocritical compliments. Politeness can be the cloak of respectability that actually covers the hypocrisy.
- However, one is tempted also to oppose this with the politeness obeying a cultural and social norm, just as the executioner made a thousand Chinese kowtow to what he will cut into 120 pieces alive. Nobody will say it is hypocritical of him, but we admire the rigor of the social norm that is needed even in these extreme cases.
2 - Politeness is a virtue morality (respect for others):
Kant's respect for others recognize its value as a human being. Respect is the effect produced on us by the supreme value of others in morals, manners would be the most common mark of this respect, provided of course be agreed and not imposed by the use.
3 - Where are the boundaries between politeness and hypocrisy?
between politeness and hypocrisy, the difference would be in the sincerity, or rather the absence or presence of the second degree. Politeness is without calculation or background : as they say, is what you can not refuse, it is the least we . The hypocrisy would be in the field of politeness, an assignment, something that meets a calculation of interest.
could then say that we are too polite to be honest as suggested by the proverb.
4 - A world without politeness is it desirable?
We recall the story of Schopenhauer's Porcupines (read here to ) politeness is what we found best to support each other. Ultimately, a world without manners is
has - a fusion community, made of porcupine quills without and I, according to Kant, with respect for humanity, the duty to love men - at least all those who gave voice their humanity (the others having all the same right, as we said at the close).
b - a world without friction because all the rough edges have been erased. Suffice to say we have robots or clones. It would be a company that has been through conflict imaginable, turning its rough blocks of individuals perfectly smooth pebbles. But as Bergson says, it will take many wars to achieve this.